Orgasms matter, period. If you have ever had someone tell you that half the fun is getting to the orgasm, well they are full of crap. You can have all of the foreplay and the kissing and blah blah blah that you want but if it does not end in orgasm, then it feels like one great big waste of time. Don’t let anyone tell you any different. Foreplay is only fun if it leads to something, it is as simple as that.
One of the biggest age-old mysteries is the way in which women have orgasms. Is it about the penetration? Is it about the clitoral stimulation? Most men have no idea, sex is pretty much a game of hit and miss for them. This leads to a whole lot of unsatisfied women and that is never a good thing.
They key to being good in bed is understanding how a woman has the orgasm and how you can trigger it. Sounds simple right? The first thing that you need to know is that there are different ways in which a woman can climax. Chicks can get off through clitoral stimulation—this is the most common form of orgasm—or they can have a g-spot orgasm. While both are fun and good, the g-spot is the one that is going to give her something to remember for years to come. No pun intended.
The g-spot is a small area inside of her vagina. If you were to stick your fingers in with the back of your hand facing down and make a come her motion you would most likely hit the g-spot. This is the spot to aim for. Starting out it is probably better for you to practice getting her off with oral sex. Use a combination of your hands and your tongue to bring her to a boiling hot g-spot climax and she is yours for life. Once you have mastered that, you can start working the g-spot into the way you have sex as well.
The one thing that you must remember at all times is that the woman needs to be at ease in order to have this kind of orgasm. Get her all relaxed, happy and then go in for the kill. She may feel like she wants to pee but if she can get through that the amount of pleasure she will experience is beyond anything she has ever felt before, that I can promise you.
