OK, Askmen.com put out an article
Ten Rules for Dating.
I want to add: ATTITUDE
Ok guys pay attention. I could write a whole book on this topic, there are extremely too many guys walking around with the wrong attitude. You are a man, so act like a man – be a man – don’t be a girly-man.
Guys, you do not have to be debonair and sophisticated, you do not need any “moves,” all you need is attitude - the right attitude, not the wrong attitude. There are ladies for all men, notice I emphasize men. Girls like: strong, weak, thin, husky – not fat, tall, short – well not too short, rugged, scrawny, young, old, you don’t need perfect hair, perfect teeth, perfect skin, or a perfect body. In other words, unless you are a big fat disgusting slob with wind chimes dangling in your mouth disguised as teeth, there are girls out there for you.
Too many guys are walking around looking like they slept in a pile of dirty laundry. Groom yourself every day – shower, shave, trim your nose hairs and eyebrows, squeeze out those blackheads from your face, clip your nails and keep your hair clean and neat. When you are in a position to meet ladies – which is just about always – dress nice, and smell nice. Yeah, that’s right, smell nice, put on some cologne – the ladies love that.
You need the right attitude. By attitude I mean your overall outlook and the manner in which you conduct yourself. Your feelings, your thoughts, the way you behave, your opinion of right and wrong and your way of thinking are all part of having the right attitude. Some attributes of the “right attitude,” in no particular order of importance.
Smile a lot
Don’t talk too much
Be a good listener
Be loyal to those that deserve your loyalty
Be clean and neat
Follow your traditions and values
Realize that getting there is 90% of the fun
Whatever you do – do it at 100%
It’s not all about you
Be honest
Respect people that deserve respect
Try to help – especially when no one is looking
Be persistent
Dream – then plan
Are you going to do everything above all the time? No, but do get in the habit of having the right attitude, woman look for that in a man.
