According to our recent online poll – Here are the top 10 sexual turn-ons for women.
1. Men who make love leisurely – guys, take your time, relax, have a sip of wine, talk to her (talk dirty too), get her to relax and have fun.
2. Men who are good kissers – Sure, you guys need to do the wet ones good, but you also need to do the soft ones: her neck, her shoulders; her belly; her thighs; her feet – all over.
3. Men who know how to touch – light, gentle touching is what the ladies like, not groping and feeling. Guys, DO NOT go right for the hot spot – instead, stroke, play and tease her with your fingers; play with her hair – wash her hair for her, she’ll be dripping more ways than one.
4. Men who give oral – I thought this would be number one. On the opposite end, it is a turn-off for women if she knows you will not give her oral. Guys, if don’t know your way around down there, check out Violet Blue’s “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus”
5. Men who give massages – nothing like have her melt away in you slippery hands. Guys, use your hands as energy transmitters; get her charged up by rubbing areas that are usually neglected; her feet; her arms and hands; don’t forget to add some light kisses along the way.
6. Men who treat you like a date – never take her for granted. Guys, even though you have been married for years, always take her out on dates, and treat her like you used to treat her the first few weeks of your relationship.
7. Men who are prepared – never show up for a party in your work clothes. Guys, do not come to bed looking and smelling as if you just took a nap in the dirty laundry pile. Take a shower, brush your teeth, put on her favorite cologne, and do not forget the candles.
8. Men who act like men – NOT girly-men. Nuff said.
9. Men who make passes – a pat on the butt while cooking dinner, a sexy phone call in the middle of the day. Guys, pay attention to her, play with her, tease her, let her know she is special and the only one for you.
10. Men who like to listen and talk – want to piss her off? Don’t talk to her or don’t listen to her needs. Guys, communication is key to a successful relationship.
